Wednesday, March 25, 2009
Why do women LOVE gay guys?
What seriously, is our obsession with gay men? And I speak for most women in general, because we love the idea of having gay friends. Perhaps it is because gay men are not as threatening? Women feel that they can interact on a more comfortable level- wait, I got it! We can... Flirt... without worrying that we will have a stalker on our hands! And you know most women LOVE to flirt. It makes them feel beautiful, special, the center of attention! Flirting allows us to get our insecurities out and feel more confident. And yes, we flirt with men... but what happens when you flirt with straight men? Well... we often get more then we want. A little attention is always good, but now that we got our free drink at the bar, we really didn't want some guy trying to put his hand up our skirt while he breathes drunkenly in our ear! I mean think about it! Most woman don't flirt to get a husband- they flirt to get a little self validation (and free drinks). When you compare scenarios, its much more appealing to flirt with a gay guy that will hug you, stroke your hair, tell you your pretty and that when you meet that hot hunk you deserve, can he just please get a piece of his ass FIRST! Seriously... can it get any better then that? And also- don't forget-... its still a male giving you attention, he just smells better, has manicured hands, and he notices your outfits!
Tuesday, March 24, 2009
Masters of Manipulation?
Who holds the keys when it comes to manipulation? Men or woman?
It is common to think that woman are the masters... but perhaps we woman are underestimating the male species!
Think about this:
You are hanging out with a guy, and he is definitely interested. In fact, his heart is on the line.. pretty obvious. You don't really have to worry about wither he wants to go out with you. Its still early on in the relationship, and your girlfriends cancelled a fun girls night out, so you give him a ring. Ooops. No answer. That's weird, since he has always answered before. No worries. But, then, a day passes, and then another, and nothing. You start to freak out, and finally break down and send a text wondering what he's doing.. all casual like, you know! The following day you get a call... He was super busy at work, but excited to see you again, and wants to take you out for dinner that night. Weird? May be perfectly honest, but now you are completely unsure and slightly agitated about where you stand with him.
You may not be so quick to think he's so available next time you want to hang out.
Slightly manipulative perhaps?
Men have more power then they think when they take away the expected from a girl. Woman like to know where they stand, be in control of their heart, and how much they put out there. To do this well, they NEED to know where your heart is. I am not saying its healthy to use this manipulative power, just acknowledging that its there, and when used, can pretty much throw any woman into a basketcase.
Beware though! Most woman don't take kindly to this, and will often retaliate with a much worse manipulative method!
It is common to think that woman are the masters... but perhaps we woman are underestimating the male species!
Think about this:
You are hanging out with a guy, and he is definitely interested. In fact, his heart is on the line.. pretty obvious. You don't really have to worry about wither he wants to go out with you. Its still early on in the relationship, and your girlfriends cancelled a fun girls night out, so you give him a ring. Ooops. No answer. That's weird, since he has always answered before. No worries. But, then, a day passes, and then another, and nothing. You start to freak out, and finally break down and send a text wondering what he's doing.. all casual like, you know! The following day you get a call... He was super busy at work, but excited to see you again, and wants to take you out for dinner that night. Weird? May be perfectly honest, but now you are completely unsure and slightly agitated about where you stand with him.
You may not be so quick to think he's so available next time you want to hang out.
Slightly manipulative perhaps?
Men have more power then they think when they take away the expected from a girl. Woman like to know where they stand, be in control of their heart, and how much they put out there. To do this well, they NEED to know where your heart is. I am not saying its healthy to use this manipulative power, just acknowledging that its there, and when used, can pretty much throw any woman into a basketcase.
Beware though! Most woman don't take kindly to this, and will often retaliate with a much worse manipulative method!
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