Tuesday, March 24, 2009

Masters of Manipulation?

Who holds the keys when it comes to manipulation? Men or woman?
It is common to think that woman are the masters... but perhaps we woman are underestimating the male species!

Think about this:
You are hanging out with a guy, and he is definitely interested. In fact, his heart is on the line.. pretty obvious. You don't really have to worry about wither he wants to go out with you. Its still early on in the relationship, and your girlfriends cancelled a fun girls night out, so you give him a ring. Ooops. No answer. That's weird, since he has always answered before. No worries. But, then, a day passes, and then another, and nothing. You start to freak out, and finally break down and send a text wondering what he's doing.. all casual like, you know! The following day you get a call... He was super busy at work, but excited to see you again, and wants to take you out for dinner that night. Weird? May be perfectly honest, but now you are completely unsure and slightly agitated about where you stand with him.
You may not be so quick to think he's so available next time you want to hang out.
Slightly manipulative perhaps?
Men have more power then they think when they take away the expected from a girl. Woman like to know where they stand, be in control of their heart, and how much they put out there. To do this well, they NEED to know where your heart is. I am not saying its healthy to use this manipulative power, just acknowledging that its there, and when used, can pretty much throw any woman into a basketcase.

Beware though! Most woman don't take kindly to this, and will often retaliate with a much worse manipulative method!

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