Taking advantage of other's Sexual Problems

Ok, girls do it all the time. You go to the bar with your girlfriends, and you are GUARANTEED a few drinks (if you dressed slutty enough). Girls know that most men are sexually driven beings- reduced to slobbering, stuttering, cant take their eyes aways from your boobs, whenever the perceived opportunity to get laid is high. And it couldn't appear higher then out at the clubs or bars. But it is no longer the girls playing the men's game. Or the young gay men working the seasoned professionals. Now we have an even newer beast emerging into the crowd of sexually hungry animals. Pretty boys taking the gay seekers up on a few drinks, maybe even going as far as to encourage dinner or other freebies, only to drop them at the doorstep- like any polite lady would do at the end of a date, and say "See ya Suckers!"
In a world that has shunned any gay-fence wavering, it is strange to see these new, more adventurous boys take on the previously female dominated game of sexual solicitation. In most societies, gay men and woman are widely accepted, as long as they are full out committed gay. I would even go as far as to say, that for men especially, it is near suicide to admit to be unsure about your sexual interest. Unlike women, who can engage in female attraction and then male solicitation with ease, men cant be slightly gay, or gay one day and not the next. Men don't broadcasts these uncertainties, because it is not as acceptable for a man to be unsure. In the past, if you were not completely ready to commit, then slightly entering the gay community would be manslaughter to any decent female relationship in the future. Now however, with more and more young people questioning their sexual identity, we are seeing some cross-overs coming out. And where better to experiment then the clubs and bars, where you can still interact sexually, brush an other's ass suggestively, flirt or even catch a quickie in the bathroom, without risking who you really are. Or who you don't know you are.
Well, I should save my in depth analysis for a different post.
Taking advantage of an other's sexual problems? Not to say that men are the only ones with sexual problems, they just seem to be more prevalent then women with similar issues. Thus we end up with this typically reoccurring situation; men offering up anything they can (free drinks- rides in fancy cars- nice dinners) in an effort to get laid. And the woman take it. Why do we take it? perhaps it is because we feel like we have to live in a male sexually dominated world and this is a slight recouping of the high cost of constantly being perceived as a sex object. We get whistled at on the street, felt up on the bus, openly ogled. Honestly... men show their sex drive way more obnoxiously then any female. Using that to our advantage in the bars to get some free stuff, may just seem like a little pay back. Now think about this: If pretty boys (aka- slight framed straight men) are turning to the same tactic, then what does that say about the increased onslaught of gay solicitation? Are we doomed to live in a world that is run by the male penis?